A hook-up is where a person meets another person by responding to or placing an ad on various websites that provide discreet ways of making introductions. Some husbands and wives around Nashville are participating in hook-ups. I am surprised at the influx of Nashville clients with the this problem. This problem is difficult to tackle. Our investigators did have some recent success in Nashville. We use a “machine gun” strategy in order to catch these types of cheaters. In addition to surveillance we log into all our accounts to try and get the cheater’s attention. One man met our undercover investigator at a restaurant within 24 hours of our first communication. Recently, after being caught on camera, a husband revealed some truths to his wife about the hook-up scene. The husband tells his wife that in order to have the hook-up a person has to provide to other party with a clean bill of health. This explained why the husband spent two hours at the health department a week before the hook-up. The two applications he was using on his phone to communicate with his potential hook-ups was Kik Dating App and Yahoo Messenger. He was meeting up with different professional people at hotels for 2-4 hour periods for sex. On the last day of our investigation, our team waited in the parking lot of a cheap hotel from 1:30 pm – 4:00 pm while the hook up took place. The female he met at the hotel was a married local professional.
If you feel your spouse may be participating in hook-ups here are some warning signs. Secret medical visits, unexplained absences, protecting phone, hiding sex toys, strange condoms, and of course, sexual transmitted disease.
My advice to clients is get some help if you can. Get a psychologist or doctor to hear you story. Get a full blood work up and inform a close friend of your thoughts. Be careful, you never know how badly people want to keep a secret. It is better to have help rather than go it alone. And oh, by the way, you are not crazy. Call us if you need our help.
Private Investigator Renee Brewer 615-207-4115