Do Not Disturb
A hook-up is where a person meets another person by responding to or placing an ad on various websites that provide discreet ways of making introductions. Some husbands and wives around Nashville are participating in hook-ups. I am surprised at the influx of Nashville clients with the this problem. This problem is difficult to tackle. Our investigators did have some recent success in Nashville. We use a “machine gun” strategy in order to catch these types of cheaters. In addition to surveillance we log into all our accounts to try and get the cheater’s attention. One man met our undercover investigator at a restaurant within 24 hours of our first communication. Recently, after being caught on camera, a husband revealed some truths to his wife about the hook-up scene. The husband tells his wife that in order to have the hook-up a person has to provide to other party with a clean bill of health. This explained why the husband spent two hours at the health department a week before the hook-up. The two applications he was using on his phone to communicate with his potential hook-ups was Kik Dating App and Yahoo Messenger. He was meeting up with different professional people at hotels for 2-4 hour periods for sex. On the last day of our investigation, our team waited in the parking lot of a cheap hotel from 1:30 pm – 4:00 pm while the hook up took place. The female he met at the hotel was a married local professional.
Hook-Up Central Nashville
If you feel your spouse may be participating in hook-ups here are some warning signs. Secret medical visits, unexplained absences, protecting phone, hiding sex toys, strange condoms, and of course, sexual transmitted disease.
My advice to clients is get some help if you can. Get a psychologist or doctor to hear you story. Get a full blood work up and inform a close friend of your thoughts. Be careful, you never know how badly people want to keep a secret. It is better to have help rather than go it alone. And oh, by the way, you are not crazy. Call us if you need our help.
Private Investigator Renee Brewer 615-207-4115
Many clients request a phone number search which costs $35 for Simple Number to
Name Search, and $10 for up to 4 additional numbers.
Things to do before you pay for Cell Phone Search:
- Search the number through Facebook, Linkedin, and other Social Media Services. Increasing security practices has people attaching cell phone numbers to accounts for verification. Even though the cell number may not be available for public viewing, it still may be listed in searchable data.
- Google Search the number.
- Search the cell phone the number was called from to see if the number listed in Contacts. Open contacts then type the number in the search bar.
- Call the number from an unknown number or have someone else do it, then ask for a predetermined name. If you suspect your call will be answered by a female, have a man call and visa-versa. The caller should be confident that he or she has the right person until someone corrects you. Hopefully the person will say, this is not so-n-so, my name is ______.
Slap n Track
Spy Matrix Pro
In the State of Tennessee it is legal to track a vehicle if you are the registered owner. Further, all registered owners must be aware of the tracking activity. We use Spy Matrix Pro professional tracking devices. These devices save the client money when legally deployed by a licensed private investigator.
How Surveillance with GPS tracking gets the job done. After legally placing the tracker on the vehicle, the vehicle can been located on a website loaded with Google Maps. The GPS System allows the user to set up text message or email alerts notifying the user within seconds of the vehicle moving. This allows the private investigator to stay a good distance away from the subject. After the vehicle stops, physical surveillance can begin.
This post is for the ladies and gentlemen who think domestic violence is not going to affect a disposition in court. It is very difficult to sit in Nashville Tennessee Divorce Court listening to real stories of a love gone wrong. Both women and men have been guilty of domestic violence. Many times it is not reported because a spouse wants to give his or her partner the benefit of the doubt. Loving a person, to some, means covering up bad acts in a effort to move forward. Here is what happened in court:
Wife: He said he never cheated but he I found photos and sexy text messages on his phone. (lawyer asks more about relationship) Wife: He has pushed me a few times and hit me once a few years ago. He recently took my car because it is a company car, he also took my computer which the children use for homework.
Husband: I use that computer for work. I have never cheated on my wife. I was just starting a relationship with the other woman because my home life was so bad. I can not give her my company car even though I have a personal truck but I do not drive the truck for sales calls. I only hit her once in my life and it wasn’t that big of a deal.
Judge: Mr. Husband, do you drink alcohol? Husband: Yes, I like to have a few beers. Judge: Would you say you drink beer everyday? Husband: Yes. Judge: Mr. Husband, You will bring the company car to your wife today. You will drive whatever you want for sales calls. Your wife has been driving that “company” car for years so return it to her. You will return the computer immediately to the martial home. You will pay (60% of his income) to the wife and children until this matter is settled. Further, Mr. Husband, you say you never cheated on your wife! Well the first time you sent an inappropriate text to the other woman you were cheating. You are a cheater Mr. Husband. Mr. Husband stand up, look around this room. There are men in this room who have never and I mean never! Sir, hit a woman. You are an abuser. You pushed her around, you cheated on her and then left with marital property. The judge went on saying you have 30 days to get your act together Sir. I am not ordering any drug rehab or anything but if you don’t pursue that on your own it is not going to be a good day in court for you 30 days from now. Do you understand? Husband: But judge my dad owns that car and we use at the office. Judge: If you provide her with a better car that will be fine but until then the company car will reside with the wife. I don’t care what you tell your dad. Get your wife and children a car. Then the judge ended with instructions on the next court date.
Renee Brewer Private Investigator